💫🌟 Life is Too Short ~ Be Vulnerably Authentic 🌟💫


💫🌟 Life is Too Short ~ Be Vulnerably Authentic 🌟💫

Life is too short to sit back & wait for it to happen for you!

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At some point you need to take action & you need to communicate… You need to engage & interact with life!  You need to communicate your needs, wants, wishes, & desires, otherwise you suffer.

Release the fear of rejection & acceptance!

Release the need to be liked for being someone you’re not or the way they want you to be!

You need to express/communicate yourself or your mind will continue to haunt you.


At least when you communicate with someone what it is you desire with or from them, you become aware of where you stand with them.

It can be a surprise that takes you off guard in a beautiful way or it can be a painful transition where you need to take a different course in your life.  But why stick something out only to hide away from what it is that makes your heart sing?

This is where people become bitter & resentful because they don’t know how to communicate what they feel they need.  They’re fearful of being rejected so they reject what it is they need in exchange for what they feel is acceptance…

It’s a lack in self-esteem & having healthy boundaries that keeps many in a pattern of painful life experiences. The only pain we are ever feeling is the delusions of the mind created through illusionary scenarios it has concocted based on the fear of repeating past experiences that were painful for us.


The more we speak up & communicate with those around us, the more powerful we feel in our Self!

You don’t know unless you ask… What you don’t know can elevate you & the more you ask for what you need, the more self confidence you will build where fear becomes less of an influence & a driving force in your life!

It’s when we embrace our authentic Self in all that we are, express it, & let it be seen ~ the more we are truly Living!!!
~ Lana A. LaBonte

To be Authentic you must also be Vulnerable!

Being Vulnerable to feeling the ecstasy of joy as well as pain, experiencing life in all forms fearlessly because we have to be vulnerable to overcome our fears!


Be willing to go outside of your comfort zone & allow whatever may happen without some idea of what it may or should look & feel like.


Yes! Life is definitely too short to be wasted on the illusions of the mind & worries…  Focus only on what you can do.

Focus on your Soul’s Growth in Love & Compassion!
You will expand out from there uplifting all those around you!

Life is too Short to be caught up in what others expect of you or want from you! Don’t let your mind get you off track & into illusions that don’t matter. It will suck the life out of you literally!   And This is what exhausts us physically & emotionally!!!

Focus on your Soul’s Growth in Love & Compassion!
You will expand out Uplifting those around you through
Your Inspired Living!
Love & Light Blessings!

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

💫⚜💫 Keeping Up With the Times💫⚜💫


💫⚜💫 Keeping Up With the Times💫⚜💫

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Be Love & Send Love to All! Radiate out Love & Leave Your Impression!
Love & Light Blessings!

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

Impatience vs. Patience


💫⚜ Impatience vs. Patience 💫

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Faith ~ Trust ~ Believe

Pour Love into everything you do! The things you do leave impressions long after you leave… So, make your Presence be well known in the Spirit of Love!

Let others be Inspired by your Essence!

“People may not remember what you said or did but they will remember how you made them feel!”


Patience is being content in the Moment with what you already have!

Impatience is the disdain & negation of all that you have, as well as, the Moment at hand… It is the desire to want things different than they already are & being unable to Accept yourself as You Are…though consider that the Law of Attraction will keep bringing you what you feel in “this Moment!”


If you are always living in the past or in the future, you will never find satisfaction or joy in the Moment because that is something within you! It is not outside of you & nothing external to you can make up for what you don’t already feel inside!  You carry it with you Always!

Again, Nothing Outside of You will make you feel what You don’t already Feel Inside! 

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~**~ Let everything you do radiate out Love & Leave Your Impression!
Live, Work, & Play In Love!
Love & Light Blessings! ~**~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

Are You On Purpose?


💫⚜Are You On Purpose?💫
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Don’t worry about what others think of you! It’s none of your business anyway!
Don’t give away your power… the only person’s opinion that matters is your own & if you’re in alignment with Soul! 

Being on Purpose ~ CHANGE in how you do things…this is where many are currently resisting living in a new way because it’s so UN-Familiar!

“Exalted, nature’s power is to help you!

Patience to Gift the Heart of the matter

Peace to bring us all together

Courage & Strength to forge ahead

…where Change is forever constant!”

~ Lana A. LaBonte, from my meditation 13 Aug 2013,  The Alchemy of Love in Life Blog


BOUNDARIES….when you don’t have them, others will test them!
This is simply the energy you bring into your experiences!

“Exalted, nature’s power is to help you!
“When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.”

~Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

“Seek Silence!
“Silent contains the same letters as LISTEN for good reason.
To be silent is to allow your Soul to be felt, your Heart to radiate, and your Body to vibrate its physical BEing.  This is the return to your Self!”

~ Lana A. LaBonte, 14 August 2013




~**~ Step up & have the Courage to Live on Purpose with Purpose! ~*♥*~
Love & Light Blessings! ~**~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

⚜Change the way you do things!⚜

💫⚜Changing the way you do things!💫

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The old way of doing things won’t do anymore… It’s time to come out of the old & into a new way of living life overall!

Are you stuck?

What areas of your life do you want to change?

All it takes is the Decision to make a Change & the Dedication to make it stick!

Do you want change?  Better yet, are you happy in your life where you’re at in this moment? 


Most people don’t even realize their lives have become stagnant until it’s too late.  Some go through habitual routines without ever questioning it but sensing an underlying resentment or sense of loss. 

What does it really take for someone to want to make a change? 



Do you have the courage to step into the unknown & unfamiliar?

“I think midlife is when the universe gently places her hands upon your shoulders, pulls you close, and whispers in your ear: I’m not screwing around. It’s time. All of this pretending and performing – these coping mechanisms that you’ve developed to protect yourself from feeling inadequate and getting hurt – has to go.

Your armor is preventing you from growing into your gifts. I understand that you needed these protections when you were small. I understand that you believed your armor could help you secure all of the things you needed to feel worthy of love and belonging, but you’re still searching and you’re more lost than ever.

Time is growing short. There are unexplored adventures ahead of you. You can’t live the rest of your life worried about what other people think. You were born worthy of love and belonging. Courage and daring are coursing through you. You were made to live and love with your whole heart. It’s time to show up and be seen.”

~Brené Brown

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~**~ Don’t give up & don’t give in!  Change takes Courage! ~*♥*~
Start coloring outside the lines & see how much more vibrant your life can be! Love & Light Blessings! ~**~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~


⚜ Radical Forgiveness⚜


💫⚜ Radical Forgiveness 💫

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Let’s talk about Radical Forgiveness and what that means for you!

Radical Forgiveness for Self gives way for Self-Acceptance & Self-Love!


Everything starts with Self… It unfolds in such a way that when you’re aware of the patterns going on within yourself, you have the opportunity to shift those patterns, change your life in the process by doing things differently than before, heal from the past by seeing your experiences as meaningful lessons to grow, and evolve into a more whole person.

I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.”
~ Maya Angelou

There is always opportunity, the question is if you see it and how you see it!


Your thoughts can drag you down into the pit of despair or lift you up with divine grace!  Which will you choose?

Do you beat yourself up like I do when you fail to meet your own expectations of yourself or those of others?

Go within and heal the innermost pains buried deep in your body and unconscious subconscious so you can radiate your light to serve and uplift others!


Peace can only be achieved when we take the necessary steps to forgive ourselves, first!  That first piece is within opening us up further to inspire outer peace in all!

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~**~ Be Kind & Loving in your thoughts, deeds, & actions! ~*♥*~
Shift your life with Radical Forgiveness to give way to Radical Self-Love!
Be a Leader in this Life….Love & Light Blessings! ~**~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~


⚜ Do Something Different! ⚜


💫⚜ Do Something Different! 💫

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Change is Constant so why not ride the wave & surf with it!?

What scares you?

Do you already anticipate a particular outcome to a familiar situation?

How about try a different approach.  Change your mindset about how you think things will turn out & consider it as unfamiliar…

Ask yourself, “How can I see this situation differently?”


Are you willing to change up your routine with ease or does it bring up discomfort for you?  It’s easy to become habitual and caught up in a routine that stunts your growth.  Life is not meant to be mundane but after a lifetime of routine, life feels more restrictive and less enjoyable!


The more we step out of our comfort zone, the easier it is for us to embrace fear that keeps us from moving forward in our lives!


What we fear is what we actually need to do the most!
~ Lana A. LaBonte

Just look back on your life when you were hesitant or resistant to doing something that felt unfamiliar and uncomfortable. It didn’t turn out so bad, did it!?  Can you recall the weight lifted off of your shoulders once you did it? Did you find it much easier once you did it rather than what you originally thought?


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~**~ Step outside the box & into the unknown! ~*♥*~
You never know how much you’ll grow until you do something different!
Love & Light Blessings! ~**~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~


💫⚜ The Importance of Communication! ⚜💫


💫⚜ The Importance of Communication! 💫

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The reason most relationships suffer and people get upset is because of lack of communication, failure to communicate, miscommunications & misunderstandings in communication.


As women, we assume so much but rarely take time to ask for the clarification- for many reasons from not wanting to nag or out of simple habit of avoiding confrontation.  Our mind can go out of control…

With men, they need help because of their own habits and unawareness.  They don’t always know nor get what we women do so we need to work with them.


The reality is it’s all about being transparent & Communicating clearly & effectively between one another!

Awareness is Key!

“When you know better, you do better!” ~ Maya Angelou

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~**~ Remember Communication is all about Love! ~*♥*~
We all seek to connect in order to feel love through our many forms of communicating.  May all your words bring Loving Intentions & Uplift those around you!  Love & Light Blessings! ~**~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

⚜ What Will You Release On This Full Moon? ⚜

⚜ What Will You Release On This Full Moon? ⚜

Are You Ready to ReWrite The Story You’ve Been Living Over & Over Again?

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~**~ You are a powerful Manifestor – You create your life with every word you speak, thought you have, action you take, & story you tell!  ~*♥*~
How are you going to enable your Soul to Soar & your Heart beat with passion?  Many Blessings of Love & Light as you Re-Ignite your inner Spark! ~**~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

Vulnerability ~ Tolerance & Compassion


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Vulnerability ~ Tolerance & Compassion

What we Resist in others teaches us what we resist in ourselves

If someone rubs you, can you step back in observation of
“Where is this originating?”

What is it about the person that bothers you?

Can you recognize yourself in their behavior?

If you’re truly honest with yourself, this will be extremely humbling!


The other day I was reminded of how when people feel overly comfortable with me but yet, I still feel a resistance towards them.

WOW!  I am able to trace it back to how I used to try too hard for people to like me or get attention.  It’s no surprise that being able to connect with someone makes us feel secure!

Isn’t it ironic that we all want attention and we can witness when someone is extremely needy but still reject them.  But ultimately the best thing we can do is to embrace them because there’s clearly a reason for it!


One reason we resist them is because of their vulnerability – it brings up the issue of trust. They don’t appear stable to us so we feel they’re not trustworthy; we sense their insecurity!  We can only know these things from our own experiences!  It’s that the trust they don’t feel within themselves makes us dis-trust their inauthentic behavior of trying to be what they’re not in order to be accepted for what they are.

What we see is our own Vulnerable Self mirrored back at us!

I can actually look back and remember how much I would try so hard in interactions with people to feel included by trying so hard to please, appease, please, find things to say, or anything I thought would draw them closer to me.  At the same time, I can look back and remember the feeling of being rejected.  I can see how I was trying so hard it would actually repel them. But I also remember how it hurt, my efforts were too much and I didn’t feel accepted.


~**~ So, the next time someone appears too needy to you, stop and consider they’re probably hungry for human connection and need your compassion the most!
We all want to be seen, heard, and accepted and embraced for who we are!   It’s all about Love! Greet everyone you meet with Love & Compassion! ~**~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~