💫🌟How People Connect🌟💫

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Do you like me for me, what I can do for you, what I represent, or how I make you feel?

In any case, there’s no denying we like people for how they make us feel!

Sometimes it’s to feel a connection or to be validated for beliefs we may similarly hold but sometimes it’s superficial in belonging to a clique, association, group, team, political party, movement, passion, etc… but what draws us to those things?

They’re not who we are but part of what we’ve accustomed to or always known or done – sometimes something you were introduced to via family like a sports team or a political party or school alma mater.  It’s out of routine & comfort we steer toward these arenas.

This is the major reason many of us need to peel back layers in our lives to challenge our beliefs, habits, routines, & lifestyles. 

Do these things truly represent who I am on the inside?

connectionquoteDo I like the people I associate with or do they simply provide an escapism from the life I’m living but also find myself unhappy with while still seeking something I still haven’t grasped?

Am I simply looking to change things up to avoid going within to confront myself & any unresolved painful memories?

We’re all going to have our attachments to certain beliefs but the key is finding neutrality where you don’t feel the need to defend your beliefs to anyone else & to honor & respect another’s beliefs that may differ from yours. 


Stop looking for the argument or attack of shaming another, let alone yourself for the sole purpose of elevating your Ego!

Wars are based on trying to impose one set of ideals upon an opposing group. 

Have you seen how that plays out?

A clue to it is ~~>     Have you ever seen a war that was “won?”  

No, because it’s a continuous fight for people to overpower others by imposing their beliefs upon them.  To dishonor, take power over, & try to force people into taking on the same beliefs. 

Nobody wants this done to them so, why do we do it to others?

There is no such thing as a war that has been won!

I’ve heard people mock the statement “Why can’t we all just get along!?”

Because the Ego is strong!  Rarely does a person know themselves well enough to even consider what is right for another person but funny enough, we have all been raised in way to take care of thy neighbor as if we should only ever think of others & then, we project ourselves (experiences, beliefs, & ideals) upon them to top it off.


First you must learn Who You Are & What Drives You! 💞
Let that be your motivator & watch how you interact with people;
as well as, the tribe you feel you belong to.
Love & Light Blessings!

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

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